Sexual Addiction and Women
Posted under Sexual Addiction on Friday, August 14th, 2009
Many people assume that sexual addiction affects mostly men, but the disorder affects women just as often. However, the shame and stigma that can come with sexual addict may keep many women from seeking treatment. According to the National Council on Sexual Addiction Compulsivity, 6 to 8 percent of Americans are suffering from sexual addiction, which is 18 to 24 million people.
The roots of sexual addiction are often found in childhood neglect or abuse, whether it be physical, emotional, verbal, or sexual. One out of three women will experience some kind of sexual abuse before the age of 18, which makes them more vulnerable to sexual addiction or compulsivity.
Characteristics of sexual addiction include compulsive thoughts or behaviors, obsession with sex, continuing behaviors despite negative consequences, excessive flirting, having multiple or extramarital affairs, disregarding appropriate sexual boundaries, trading sex for drugs or other services, compulsive masturbation and/or use of pornography, engaging in anonymous sex or phone sex, and exhibitionism or voyeurism.
Besides the psychological impact of sexual addiction, the condition can also lead to unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, unemployment, divorce, and legal issues. In addition, if a woman suffering from sexual addiction has children, having multiple partners may increase her children’s risk of being abused.
If you think you or someone you know might have a problem with sexual addiction, it is imperative to seek professional help immediately. You can also take a self-test at the Sexual Recovery Institute.